21 Days – Tippy Goodness

21 Days Makes a Habit

What can you do in 21 days? Here’s how I helped myself:

  • Black and White thinking is toxic to progress. It doesn’t allow you to see incremental growth in every step of the way.
  • Don’t focus on what you did not do, focus on what you did. It doesn’t matter big or small, your focus dictates where you go. If you focus on what you did not do, you will continue to not do.
  • Don’t think about 21 days, don’t even think about tomorrow. Focus on today and today alone. Today will set you up for tomorrow without you thinking on it.
  • Structure your day around your commitment. This eradicates life getting in the way. If you want to do something at 7PM, plan your day around 7PM.
  • If you can’t make it one day, or something happens, focus on how you can bring smaller versions into your day. If you need an hour and you can’t do it, do 6 – 10-minute versions, and be happy if you only did 1 – 10-minute version.
  • Everything you do is more than you ever did before.
  • Thank yourself and your God, or whoever for everything you accomplish and you will always accomplish more.
  • EXPECT NOTHING. Don’t let your ego run this show. Don’t assign any outcome (i.e. lose 10 lbs) to this practice – whatever it is. You will always disappoint yourself. Your imagination tends to be more creative than your reality.
  • APPRECIATE EVERYTHING. Your ego likes to think you are in charge and you are responsible for everything. Appreciate every step you take in this process – forwards or back because a movement is still movement.
  • Just do the thing – don’t wait for circumstances, don’t carrot your happiness. You have a new beginning every day, every minute if you want. Do it.

 

Shanteel has helped me place the first nut in the right spot. My psychiatrist said the grounding I will find from yoga will make me as unmovable as a 200 lb bull dog. In that case, I guess I don’t need to be worried about nuts at all..

 

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  1. Love this, the fact that people take so long to accomplish things is because they think in reverse. Black and white thinking is toxic, so much better to think in color! Some are to busy haunted by the past and worried about the future to focus on the present. You bring up so many great points about being held back mentally by the past. Tie a string to your wrist and convince yourself you can’t break it, you’ll forever be a prisoner in the mind. You are something else.🌹🌹💕

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    1. ❤️❤️❤️ these are all what I have learned from The Buddha. It is his voice that has guided me to my own voice. I wasn’t writing bc I was convinced I can’t and I suck and all of this nonsense. Who cares? Success is not determined by the size of My wallet Success is determined by the size of my smile. At least to me 😊😊😊

      If I am something else, you’re right there with me!!! So so glad for our connection here. It was getting back to writing and talking with you that got me behind the keyboard. I thank you!!!!!!

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      1. You are a daily learner my dear, I know why you write and it has to do with heart❤️. Success is determined by your smile, the wider the wealthier is what I say beautiful.😁😁😁

        Like I said, I and we have missed you!! I’m so glad you’re back, love your post and love commenting with you.❤️🌹

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